https://odb.org/2025/11/11/flashbulb-memories

John 20:18–20 (NIV): 18 Mary Magdalene went to the disciples with the news: “I have seen the Lord!” And she told them that he had said these things to her.
19 On the evening of that first day of the week, when the disciples were together, with the doors locked for fear of the Jewish leaders, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” 20 After he said this, he showed them his hands and side. The disciples were overjoyed when they saw the Lord.
John 20:30–31 (NIV): 30 Jesus performed many other signs in the presence of his disciples, which are not recorded in this book. 31 But these are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name.
Early winter 1941. The Sunday service had just concluded. As their father lingered at the little north-country church, my dad and his siblings walked the short distance home. When their father came up the snowy hill to the farmhouse, he was crying. He’d just learned Pearl Harbor had been bombed. His sons—my dad included—would be going to war. Dad always recalled the moment in vivid detail.
Researchers call such events “flashbulb memories”—moments seared into our minds. Think of 9/11, or the day you lost someone close. Think too of your most joyous experience.
John recorded some of those moments, saying, “These are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name” (v. 31). “Flashbulb memories” with eternal significance.
(Tim Gustafson, ODB, 11th November 2025)
I believe everyone has flashbulb memories, events that are etched so deep in our memories that we remember them as though they just happened yesterday. Some may be vague in terms of the clarity of details but we nevertheless remember them. For example, my early years in ACS Primary in Sitiawan. Going to class with spelling of words to be learned on the blackboard as there is a spelling test each week for Malay and English words. I recall struggling to reconcile the word “air” having two distinct meanings in English and Malay! Or eating a bowl of plain curry mee for 20 sen at the school canteen. Those were the days when I didn’t quite like learning as a student. But after entering the working world post graduation, I realise that life as a student is blissful without needing to carry the family burden to put food on the table. I only needed 30 sen to go through my day but if I missed my bus home, I needed to walk home for about 5km as I will have no money to take the public bus. A different life it was then.
I also recall my secondary school days in Pasir Puteh, Kelantan, particularly, the 10-12 weeks of bible study to learn how to become a Christian. I thank the Lord that it all culminated in my accepting Christ and entering the Kingdom of God for life eternal. As per John in chapter 20 verse 31: “These are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name”.
There are of course traumatic moments, also etched in our memories. Flashbulb memories we rather forget and yet may serve as a lesson for us and our children. Heartbreaks, disappointments, passing of our loved ones like my parents in my case.
I think the message the Lord has for us this morning is that as we recall our own flashbulb memories, may we be encouraged and grateful for where and who we are today. If we are going through a bad day, may our recollection of our past experiences with God give us the assurance that He will be by our side come what may! I thank the Lord for the wonderful blessings He has bestowed upon me and my family all these years! Praise the Lord for He is good and His faithfulness endures forever!















