Romans 12:18

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Romsns 12:18 (NKJV) If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.

In the earlier chapters of the book of Romans (1-11), Paul taught us that salvation is by the grace of God through our faith in Christ Jesus. In the subsequent chapters (12-16), Paul taught about the practical aspects of how our beliefs impact our conduct and our relationships with others. In other words, the pattern in Paul’s writings is to first spell out the theology of what we believe and then elaborate on how we are to live and behave. Faith is not just about believing but also how to apply our beliefs to our day to day living, in our interactions with others. It may look like rules, but the latter may sometimes include principles to activate the blessings of God by opening the floodgates from the heavenlies. But mainly to ensure that our conduct does not compromise or contradict our beliefs.

Taken in that context, Romans 12:18 is first to make sure that we ourselves do not create or cause conflicts with others (believers and non-believers alike). But more crucially, if someone else were to bait or provoke us, we avoid that outright confrontation. We may have healthy discussions, I guess, but we need to maintain harmony or, as the NKJV puts it, live peaceably with all men. This is because, fundamentally, our faith is about reconciliation, love, grace, and mercy. We build up rather than destroy. We lift up and not tear down (unless we are talking about spiritual strongholds).

As much as it depends on us and if it is possible, we must live in peace and harmony with others. Let’s take that to heart and practice this for the coming week. Avoid conflicts and preempt confrontations. Let things proceed smoothly. Wouldn’t that be living a better life for everyone? Have a good week ahead, everyone! May the Lord grant us discernment and wisdom to deal with issues at work, at home, and in the church in a harmonious and peaceful fashion?