God sets the lonely in families

https://odb.org/2024/06/18/friend-to-the-lonely

There is a sense that we can be lonely despite being in the presence of many people. For example, if we are invited to a function or a party, but we hardly know anyone. Of course, once the proceedings start, we could get lost in the crowd and go about unnoticed, especially if it is a multiple course dinner. But we will wish we were not there and would have preferred to spend the time in the company of friends and family.

But loneliness here goes beyond just being alone in a crowd. It is a loneliness that speaks of a lack of companionship. There could be many reasons why some people lack friends and companions. We could be introverts and a loner. We like to keep to ourselves in social settings or just don’t chat or make conversation. But a lack of companionship could point to something deeper. It may be due to a lack of selflessness and a spirit of sharing. If we are constantly selfish and look out for ourselves only, it is less likely that anyone will be interested in sharing their lives with us. In other words, sometimes we may need to give of ourselves to break free from our own loneliness and lack. That is why Scripture teaches that it is better to give than to receive. Giving ensures that we will one day receive. The LORD will make sure of that.

Look deeper within us. Break free from the attitude that all that is mine is mine alone. Instead, consider that Jesus allowed us to be where we are for a purpose. Our wealth may be to bless some who are in need. Many struggle to make the best of their lives. Some struggle even to live! Any act of kindness from us will go some way to strengthen their belief and resolve that things will turn the corner. It will dispel all thoughts that the world is against them or that the heavens have dealt them a poor hand. Give of ourselves and our money and time, the Lord will surely find a way to bless us. One who is gracious to a poor man lends to the LORD. And He will repay him for his good deed. Proverbs 19:7. Ultimately, as Psalm 68:6 says, God sets the lonely in families.